“Good pain” is at the heart of the pressure question: a strange, potent sensory paradox that many people actually seek out as the goal of therapy, consciously or unconciously. Either it isn’t literally painful (just intense), or it’s painful but desired anyway because of relief or belief: an actual biological relief or at least the belief that there is one. But it’s important to note that not all satisfying, relieving sensations are genuinely helpful (e.g. scratching a mosquito bite).
Tapotement strokes are usually used at the very end of a massaging session where the therapists deliver rhythmic movements via rapidly constant strikes from his/her wrists. Besides from relaxed wrists tapping upon the body in a repetitive pattern, the fingers, sides of the hands, as well as the fists, can be utilized to achieve the massage objective best.
A good massage therapist will never force pressure into the muscle. They will continue to apply pressure until the muscle pushes back against them. The muscle will then slowly begin to release and allow the therapist to move along it. The pressure used should not be painful, but should walk a fine line between pleasurable release of tension and a pain-blocking response from the body (tensing up).